We are successful single heterosexual women in our 50's, 60's and 70's who for unforeseen reasons never married and had a family; BUT, we lead very full and interesting lives. Let's share those lives, experiences and celebrate the women we are.
Sunday, December 28, 2014
It Is Sad
It is a tragedy that last week two of New York's finest were assassinated, finally we New Yorkers are noticing.
I was brought up to respect policemen - they were there to protect us. More than once I have walked up to a policeman to ask for directions and felt safe to do so. I am in awe of any individual who decides to go into this profession - to know that they put their lives on the line on a daily basis for us. I am not sure that most of us would or could do that.
Stop and think of these individuals - thank them for their service and give them the respect they deserve.
Saturday, December 27, 2014
It Has Begun
I have begun the cleaning and organizing for the New Year.
It is a tradition that my Mother instilled in me, her exact words were, "Never let the New Year catch you dirty". So to that end I clean my house, I organize things and I cull my home of items I no longer need, want or use and donate them.
There is a sense of peace that comes from this process, the order that gets done; it is what I am about: organization, details and cleanliness.
Some may view this as a burden - I view it as a salvation.
Friday, December 26, 2014
Day After
It is December 26th - the day after Christmas and many people are at the stores for the after Christmas sales.
Not me - I am home relaxing after two days of cooking and getting ready for Christmas dinner I was not looking to jump out of bed and do much. I didn't even set the alarm - when I wake up, then I will get up - I don't do that very often.
I will put away the dishes and utensils used for Christmas dinner, I will have a relaxing breakfast while I read the newspapers and watch the news. I will then bake some more pumpkin bread, another bread pudding and a couple of more bottles of coquito and call it a day.
This is one day that it is okay to be somewhat lazy.
Thursday, December 25, 2014
Wednesday, December 24, 2014
Focus
Today I will make the desserts for our Christmas dinner - they will be traditional, rice pudding and bread pudding.
Each takes some time to make - the rice pudding is a 4 hour process while the bread pudding will take me about 2 hours. The nice thing is that after all that time something delicious is made and will be enjoyed by my family.
What I appreciate is that cooking helps me de-stress and since it is precise I focus on what I am doing and not necessarily on what is happening in my life.
Hope that each of you has something that helps you to cope when things aren't all that great.
Tuesday, December 23, 2014
Neighborly Act
I don't know which of my neighbors did this - but, thank you.
I walked out yesterday morning to find my windshield wipers lifted up - this is something we all do when we expect that it is going to snow. I didn't think that it was going to snow on Sunday night; but, I guess I didn't hear the weather report. Sure enough we had snow - not a lot enough to cover the ground and the car.
Now it is my turn to be neighborly - two of my neighbors will be away for the holidays and I will watch their homes and make sure all is fine.
Monday, December 22, 2014
Almost Done
Most of us are down to our final Christmas preparations - at least I am.
Last night I made 3 bottles of coquito - 2 which will be given as gifts. After my Gentle Yoga class today I will bake 3 loaves of pumpkin bread - 2 which will join the coquito as gifts.
On Saturday I gave the butcher my Christmas meat order and I will pick it up on Tuesday after my appointment with the other items I need for Christmas dinner. Last night I also ironed the napkins and today I will set the table - all as one less thing to worry about on Christmas Eve or Christmas Day.
All of this will keep me sane as I will have Callum on Tuesday and Wednesday - and I will get everything done on time.
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